Thomas “TJ” James McMillan of Rising Sun, MD, age 22, passed away tragically on Friday, November 2, 2018. He was born in Lancaster, PA on July 20, 1996 to Jamie Donald McMillan and Amy (Bauguess) McMillan. TJ graduated from Rising Sun High School in 2015. He went on to attend Cecil College full time, pursingContinue Reading
Thomas “TJ” James McMillan of Rising Sun, MD, age 22, passed away tragically on Friday, November 2, 2018. He was born in Lancaster, PA on July 20, 1996 to Jamie Donald McMillan and Amy (Bauguess) McMillan.
TJ graduated from Rising Sun High School in 2015. He went on to attend Cecil College full time, pursing his degree in computer programming and game design. He was a member of the national honor society, Alpha Alpha Theta. TJ led a bible study group and was a member of the GBC, a model club, both through Cecil College. He was a very active member at Conowingo Baptist Church, working the sound system for services and a member of the college and career church group.
A talented young man, TJ built and painted Gundam models. He enjoyed playing airsoft and was a train enthusiast. TJ was happy and fun-loving person, described as a “shining star” who could light up a room with his smile. Above all, TJ was very strong in his faith and helped others before helping himself. He never let his disability stop him from achieving his goals. TJ preached about his autism, saying that his disability was really an ability to reach people through Christ. He witnessed to the very end, when the emergency crews took home the word through the gospel tracks that he always carried with him.
TJ is survived by his parents, Jamie and Amy McMillan; brother, Austin McMillan, sister, Eden and Corey Barton; niece, Everly Barton; nephew, Liam Barton; maternal grandmother, Susan and Tom Stephens; paternal grandfather, JD and Margaret McMillan; paternal grandmother, Robin and Bill Brueckman; two uncles: Adam and Jennifer McMillan and Ron and Tracy Bauguess; maternal aunt, Wanda and Mike Maturo; and numerous cousins. TJ is preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, Thomas J. Bauguess.
A visitation will be held from 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm on Wednesday, November 7, 2018 at Conowingo Baptist Church, 151 Rock Springs Rd., Conowingo, MD 21918. A funeral service will be held at 11:00 am on Thursday, November 8, 2018 at Conowingo Baptist Church, where family and friends may begin visiting at 10:00 am. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made payable to “Conowingo Baptist Church” which will be designated towards building the Thomas McMillan Outreach Center. Please send the donations in care of R.T. Foard Funeral Home, PO Box 248, Rising Sun, MD 21911.
Ethen Taylor
left a message on December 12, 2019:
Rest in peace to my cousin/brother I miss you so much and think about you everyday thank you for everything.
Patricia Bernero
left a message on November 13, 2018:
Dear Amy and Family,
I have just read TJ's obituary in the newspaper today. I am so sorry that we missed the services. I am shocked and feel ill over this tragic loss.
Our thoughts and prayers and hugs go out to you and your family.
Every year I think of TJ and the candy cane ornament he made at Christmas time for Billy in preschool.
This year hanging it will hold an extra special place in my heart.
With much love,
Patricia, MikeBilly and Bernero Family
I have just read TJ's obituary in the newspaper today. I am so sorry that we missed the services. I am shocked and feel ill over this tragic loss.
Our thoughts and prayers and hugs go out to you and your family.
Every year I think of TJ and the candy cane ornament he made at Christmas time for Billy in preschool.
This year hanging it will hold an extra special place in my heart.
With much love,
Patricia, MikeBilly and Bernero Family
adriana Brown
left a message on November 9, 2018:
My Deepest sympathies to the entire Family. I pray the Lord can bring you some comfort during this most difficult of times. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers
Debbi Troutman-Keithley
left a message on November 8, 2018:
Robin so sorry to hear of your grandson's death. May your memories be your leaning post through the next few days. Many hugs and much love for you all.
Friend Friend
left a message on November 8, 2018:
TJ was a wonderful friend! He showed me to always take a day with a smile, to know there is good in the world, and I will never forget him showing me his Doctor Who pen that he was so excited about. Until we see each other again, TJ!
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Marlene garay
left a message on November 7, 2018:
Ms
left a message on November 7, 2018:
To the family of Thomas McMillan I would like to express my condolence to you may the God of comfort bring comfort to you with his right arm extended to you Isa.41:10
Susan White
left a message on November 7, 2018:
To the McMillan family - I was so shocked and so sad to learn of the passing of this fine and memorable young man. My deepest sympathies to you all.
left a message on November 7, 2018:
I had the pleasure of knowing TJ in the RSHS Robotics Club. He had a genuine interest in the technology and competitions. He was a true gentleman and always courteous and open to suggestions. May the Lord reward his faithfulness and be a consolation to his family and friends.
Mr. Stellhorn
Mr. Stellhorn
Elaine Dryden
left a message on November 6, 2018:
My deepest and most sincere condolences and prayers for you. I'm so very sorry to learn of your loss.
left a message on November 6, 2018:
Jamie and Amy,
Our condolences and prayers are with you.
Keith and Michelle Porter
Our condolences and prayers are with you.
Keith and Michelle Porter
Gary Holmes
left a message on November 5, 2018:
Robin, Bill, Cori, & all of TJ's parents, siblings, grandparents & cousins: I was just heartbroken to hear the news. He was a sweet young man & a true testimony till the end. I know he is enjoying a wonderful reward in Heaven with Jesus; but love & prayers & hugs go out to all of you at this very sad time. Praying peace & special memories for you. Gary Holmes.
edward horn and family
left a message on November 5, 2018:
My heart and prayers are with you and so sorry for your loss
Miriam Helton
left a message on November 5, 2018:
My heart and prayers are with you. I will write you later but I remember his birth. I have missed his formative years.what a joy to know that he entered into the presence of Jesus as a faithful witness.i love you both dearly and I mourn with you.
left a message on November 5, 2018:
May the love of friends and family carry you through this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Sincerely,
Rich, Carey, Luke, and Drew Opp
Sincerely,
Rich, Carey, Luke, and Drew Opp
Don and Cathy Angelo
left a message on November 5, 2018:
" We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mr.and Mrs. Timothy Schack
left a message on November 5, 2018:
Although we don't know any of you, your family has been in our thoughts and prayers for days. Your son sounds like he was a remarkable, young man..with faith, no doubt enstilled by his parents. I am sure the good Lord had a room reserved for your son, for a job "well done". Now his life has truly just begun and know that God is so close to you all right now and He hears your prayers.
Mr.and Mrs. Timothy Schack
left a message on November 5, 2018:
Although we don't know any of you, your family has been in our prayers for days. Your son sounds like he was a remarkable young man, with lots of faith. I am sure this was enstilled in him and in itself, that is amazing. I am sure the Lord had a spot reserved for your son, for a job well done! His life has truly just begun! Our sincerest condolences and continued prayers....
linda edwards holcomb HOLCOMB
left a message on November 5, 2018:
he is at home, with Jesus.
Michael Ingerson
left a message on November 5, 2018:
I know TJ and his family through Conowingo Baptist Church. I am very sad to hear of his passing, and send his entire family my most heartfelt condolences.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jodi Chadwick
left a message on November 5, 2018:
I am so sorry for your loss! You are in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Ken Smith
left a message on November 5, 2018:
I can tell you that even as a little boy he impacted folks he met. I was one of them! Praying for all the family
Gerry Callaghan
left a message on November 5, 2018:
Margaret and JD, my sincerest condolences. My heart goes out to you and his Mom and Dad. God needed another Angel. I'm praying for peace and solace for you and all his family. Hugs, Gerry Callaghan.
Terry Notarcola
left a message on November 4, 2018:
So sorry for your loss. I worked with Thomas at the deli and he was always polite and nice guy. Prayers for all the famiies.
Donna Jordan
left a message on November 4, 2018:
Susan and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love Bob and Betty Edwards family.
Linda Holland
left a message on November 4, 2018:
My heart is broken for your family. May the prayers around you give you the strength you need.
Lorraine Fortune
left a message on November 4, 2018:
Amy & Jamie, I am so sorry about TJ. I know he was your pride & joy. Please know that you & your family are in my prayers. May God help you through this terrible time. I shall never forget you & your family.
Paul and Elaina McGuigan
left a message on November 4, 2018:
Words cannot express the sadness that my family feels for the loss of TJ. TJ was and amazing young man, and there was never a time when we ran into him where he didn't greet us with a smile and polite conversation. Only the peace and comfort that comes from Christ can begin to heal this terrible wound. My family and I , along with our Church family, have all of TJ's family and friends in our prayers.
Melissa Copenhaver
left a message on November 4, 2018:
I'm sorry I didn't know this young man and wish I had since he was such a very special person. It is so sad he had to leave at such a young age, but we all know there was a reason - his work here has been completed.
Sandra Feltman
left a message on November 4, 2018:
He was a special young man. So sorry for your loss.
Sandy Feltman
Sandy Feltman
Tina Johnson
left a message on November 4, 2018:
Iam so sorry for your loss I worked with him at rock springs he was a great kid I enjoyed working with him he was a joy and when I seen him at martins he made sure to speak he was a very hard worker
Kathleen Reeves
left a message on November 4, 2018:
I am so sorry about the loss of your son. He seemed like an amazing young man.
Jane Bellmyer Bellmyer
left a message on November 4, 2018:
May his memory be a blessing.
Jane Bellmyer Bellmyer
left a message on November 4, 2018:
I am so very sad to learn of TJ's passing. I enjoyed the time I spent with him when he would come to youth group events with his friend Fisher Arter. When I heard of what happened I sought out photos of him and found several from a trip we took to the Youth Rally in Ocean City in 2014. I posted one here for you. May his memory be a blessing.
Dave Roberts
left a message on November 4, 2018:
Jamie and Amy, family and friends, so sorry for your loss. Please know that your all being surrounded by prayer and pray the God will bring peace and healing during this difficult time. From seeing and reading lots of posts it's obvious that TJ brought a lot of joy to many and lived a life for the Lord.
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Ethen Taylor
left a message on December 12, 2019:
Rest in peace to my cousin/brother I miss you so much and think about you everyday thank you for everything.
Patricia Bernero
left a message on November 13, 2018:
Dear Amy and Family,
I have just read TJ's obituary in the newspaper today. I am so sorry that we missed the services. I am shocked and feel ill over this tragic loss.
Our thoughts and prayers and hugs go out to you and your family.
Every year I think of TJ and the candy cane ornament he made at Christmas time for Billy in preschool.
This year hanging it will hold an extra special place in my heart.
With much love,
Patricia, MikeBilly and Bernero Family
I have just read TJ's obituary in the newspaper today. I am so sorry that we missed the services. I am shocked and feel ill over this tragic loss.
Our thoughts and prayers and hugs go out to you and your family.
Every year I think of TJ and the candy cane ornament he made at Christmas time for Billy in preschool.
This year hanging it will hold an extra special place in my heart.
With much love,
Patricia, MikeBilly and Bernero Family
adriana Brown
left a message on November 9, 2018:
My Deepest sympathies to the entire Family. I pray the Lord can bring you some comfort during this most difficult of times. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers
Debbi Troutman-Keithley
left a message on November 8, 2018:
Robin so sorry to hear of your grandson's death. May your memories be your leaning post through the next few days. Many hugs and much love for you all.
Friend Friend
left a message on November 8, 2018:
TJ was a wonderful friend! He showed me to always take a day with a smile, to know there is good in the world, and I will never forget him showing me his Doctor Who pen that he was so excited about. Until we see each other again, TJ!
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Marlene garay
left a message on November 7, 2018:
Ms
left a message on November 7, 2018:
To the family of Thomas McMillan I would like to express my condolence to you may the God of comfort bring comfort to you with his right arm extended to you Isa.41:10
Susan White
left a message on November 7, 2018:
To the McMillan family - I was so shocked and so sad to learn of the passing of this fine and memorable young man. My deepest sympathies to you all.
left a message on November 7, 2018:
I had the pleasure of knowing TJ in the RSHS Robotics Club. He had a genuine interest in the technology and competitions. He was a true gentleman and always courteous and open to suggestions. May the Lord reward his faithfulness and be a consolation to his family and friends.
Mr. Stellhorn
Mr. Stellhorn
Elaine Dryden
left a message on November 6, 2018:
My deepest and most sincere condolences and prayers for you. I'm so very sorry to learn of your loss.
left a message on November 6, 2018:
Jamie and Amy,
Our condolences and prayers are with you.
Keith and Michelle Porter
Our condolences and prayers are with you.
Keith and Michelle Porter
Gary Holmes
left a message on November 5, 2018:
Robin, Bill, Cori, & all of TJ's parents, siblings, grandparents & cousins: I was just heartbroken to hear the news. He was a sweet young man & a true testimony till the end. I know he is enjoying a wonderful reward in Heaven with Jesus; but love & prayers & hugs go out to all of you at this very sad time. Praying peace & special memories for you. Gary Holmes.
edward horn and family
left a message on November 5, 2018:
My heart and prayers are with you and so sorry for your loss
Miriam Helton
left a message on November 5, 2018:
My heart and prayers are with you. I will write you later but I remember his birth. I have missed his formative years.what a joy to know that he entered into the presence of Jesus as a faithful witness.i love you both dearly and I mourn with you.
left a message on November 5, 2018:
May the love of friends and family carry you through this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Sincerely,
Rich, Carey, Luke, and Drew Opp
Sincerely,
Rich, Carey, Luke, and Drew Opp
Don and Cathy Angelo
left a message on November 5, 2018:
" We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mr.and Mrs. Timothy Schack
left a message on November 5, 2018:
Although we don't know any of you, your family has been in our thoughts and prayers for days. Your son sounds like he was a remarkable, young man..with faith, no doubt enstilled by his parents. I am sure the good Lord had a room reserved for your son, for a job "well done". Now his life has truly just begun and know that God is so close to you all right now and He hears your prayers.
Mr.and Mrs. Timothy Schack
left a message on November 5, 2018:
Although we don't know any of you, your family has been in our prayers for days. Your son sounds like he was a remarkable young man, with lots of faith. I am sure this was enstilled in him and in itself, that is amazing. I am sure the Lord had a spot reserved for your son, for a job well done! His life has truly just begun! Our sincerest condolences and continued prayers....
linda edwards holcomb HOLCOMB
left a message on November 5, 2018:
he is at home, with Jesus.
Michael Ingerson
left a message on November 5, 2018:
I know TJ and his family through Conowingo Baptist Church. I am very sad to hear of his passing, and send his entire family my most heartfelt condolences.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jodi Chadwick
left a message on November 5, 2018:
I am so sorry for your loss! You are in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Ken Smith
left a message on November 5, 2018:
I can tell you that even as a little boy he impacted folks he met. I was one of them! Praying for all the family
Gerry Callaghan
left a message on November 5, 2018:
Margaret and JD, my sincerest condolences. My heart goes out to you and his Mom and Dad. God needed another Angel. I'm praying for peace and solace for you and all his family. Hugs, Gerry Callaghan.
Terry Notarcola
left a message on November 4, 2018:
So sorry for your loss. I worked with Thomas at the deli and he was always polite and nice guy. Prayers for all the famiies.
Donna Jordan
left a message on November 4, 2018:
Susan and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love Bob and Betty Edwards family.
Linda Holland
left a message on November 4, 2018:
My heart is broken for your family. May the prayers around you give you the strength you need.
Lorraine Fortune
left a message on November 4, 2018:
Amy & Jamie, I am so sorry about TJ. I know he was your pride & joy. Please know that you & your family are in my prayers. May God help you through this terrible time. I shall never forget you & your family.
Paul and Elaina McGuigan
left a message on November 4, 2018:
Words cannot express the sadness that my family feels for the loss of TJ. TJ was and amazing young man, and there was never a time when we ran into him where he didn't greet us with a smile and polite conversation. Only the peace and comfort that comes from Christ can begin to heal this terrible wound. My family and I , along with our Church family, have all of TJ's family and friends in our prayers.
Melissa Copenhaver
left a message on November 4, 2018:
I'm sorry I didn't know this young man and wish I had since he was such a very special person. It is so sad he had to leave at such a young age, but we all know there was a reason - his work here has been completed.
Sandra Feltman
left a message on November 4, 2018:
He was a special young man. So sorry for your loss.
Sandy Feltman
Sandy Feltman
Tina Johnson
left a message on November 4, 2018:
Iam so sorry for your loss I worked with him at rock springs he was a great kid I enjoyed working with him he was a joy and when I seen him at martins he made sure to speak he was a very hard worker
Kathleen Reeves
left a message on November 4, 2018:
I am so sorry about the loss of your son. He seemed like an amazing young man.
Jane Bellmyer Bellmyer
left a message on November 4, 2018:
May his memory be a blessing.
Jane Bellmyer Bellmyer
left a message on November 4, 2018:
I am so very sad to learn of TJ's passing. I enjoyed the time I spent with him when he would come to youth group events with his friend Fisher Arter. When I heard of what happened I sought out photos of him and found several from a trip we took to the Youth Rally in Ocean City in 2014. I posted one here for you. May his memory be a blessing.
Dave Roberts
left a message on November 4, 2018:
Jamie and Amy, family and friends, so sorry for your loss. Please know that your all being surrounded by prayer and pray the God will bring peace and healing during this difficult time. From seeing and reading lots of posts it's obvious that TJ brought a lot of joy to many and lived a life for the Lord.
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