Raymond Paul Ferguson, Jr., 59, of Elkton, MD, passed away on Saturday, November 25, 2023. He was born on February 22, 1964, in Tyrone, PA, the cherished son of Raymond, Sr., and Carol (nee, Mock) Ferguson. Ray was the devoted husband of Sandra Ferguson. Ray’s professional life was marked by dedication and warmth as aContinue Reading
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Raymond Paul Ferguson, Jr., 59, of Elkton, MD, passed away on Saturday, November 25, 2023. He was born on February 22, 1964, in Tyrone, PA, the cherished son of Raymond, Sr., and Carol (nee, Mock) Ferguson. Ray was the devoted husband of Sandra Ferguson.
Ray’s professional life was marked by dedication and warmth as a well-known Independent Operator for both Thomas Bagels and Arnold Bread Company, serving grocery stores throughout Cecil County. His gregarious and generous nature endeared him to many, and he was always ready to lend a caring hand to anyone who needed help.
Away from work, Ray found joy in following the Phillies, Steelers, and Notre Dame Fighting Irish. His love for golf, meticulous lawn care, and family pool time reflected his passion for life’s simple pleasures. Family vacations to the Outer Banks were a cherished tradition, and Christmas held a special place in his heart. Known affectionately as “Poppy Clause,” Ray delighted in spoiling his family and especially his grandchildren during the Holiday Season.
Ray’s sense of humor was a defining characteristic, and he often played practical jokes on those he loved. His laughter and warm spirit will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing and loving him.
In addition to his parents, Ray is survived by his loving wife, Sandra Ferguson; daughters: Stephanie Gobble and her husband Joshua, Lindsay Ferguson; three grandchildren; and siblings: Laura Ferguson, Christy Smart and husband Don, Darin Ferguson and wife Ann, and Tina Vassalotti and husband Tony.
A celebration of Ray’s life will be held on Saturday December 9, 2023 at 11:00 AM at R. T. Foard Funeral Home, 259 East Main Street, Elkton, MD. The family will begin receiving friends at 10:00AM. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests bringing an unwrapped toy to be donated to the Marine Corps Reserve Toys For Tots.
May Ray’s memory live on in the hearts of those who knew and loved him, and may the shared moments of joy and laughter provide comfort during this difficult time. To send online condolences, please visit www.rtfoard.com.
Sandy Ferguson
left a message on March 8, 2024:
I sat with you today!
I sat with you today, I sat right in your chair,
I know I could not see you, but I knew that you were there.
I couldn't hear your voice at all, but I heard every word that was spoken, I sat with you today, you calm, but yet so heart broken....
I know you follow me around, I have known it from the start, But sometimes I am afraid to look,
So heavy is my heart.....
I often feel you touch my face, Or think I feel you near, But when I try to see you,
Its like you just simply disappear..
I love you more and more each day, And beg for you to know, I find it harder every day, Just to let you go...
I sat with you today you know, I'm sure that was your scent, I cannot understand it though, How you just suddenly went...
I'll sit with you tomorrow, If that's okay with you,
Sometimes it feels the only thing
I still know to do…I love you!
Donald Harmon
left a message on January 7, 2024:
Worked with Ray several years, and in that time found him to be a delight to be around. A fun living guy and a hard worker. He will be missed.
Tammy Ferguson
left a message on December 28, 2023:
BRUB – My Best Friend thank you for being there for me with your love and guidance I needed. You have given me the best things in life, your time, your care and especially your love. I am truly grateful and blessed to of had you in my life. I am proud to call you my cousin. Now you are my Angel so spread your wings and fly. I love and miss you Brub with all my heart. Rest In Peace . I love you and miss you very much. Tammy
Melodie Grubb-Fritsch
left a message on December 15, 2023:
I’m so sorry for your loss. I remember Ray from school he was such a nice and friendly guy. Can’t believe he’s gone; much too soon! My thoughts and prayers to all of the family.
Steph
left a message on December 10, 2023:
I miss you so much Dad. You are everything to our family. You protected us, loved us, did everything for us and we are so grateful to have someone so amazing as the head of our family. There is an empty hole for the rest of our lives. Your ability to bring laughter, help in times of need, or just hang out are truly the greatest things I’ll miss. You did so many small, simple things that we all miss every hour of each day. Time is continuing and we’re just so lost without your presence. Send us signs because we’re going to need them. Love you Dad. 💗
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Geneva
left a message on December 9, 2023:
I’m so sorry for the loss of Ray ! He was a wonderful person i got to know him as the bread man ! I saw him so much when my mom worked at Walmart they would crack jokes for days. I just saw him a couple days before thanksgiving and he still had his wonderful funny spirit was so happy to talk about his grandbabies. He will be truly missed ! God gain a wonderful spirit.
My condolences to the family
Michelle from Walmart in Elkton ,Md
left a message on December 9, 2023:
He will be missed. I only new Ray as the Bagel man but he always put a smile on my face. He had a great sense is humor.
Carolyn Lesniowski
left a message on December 7, 2023:
Sandy,
I am so sorry for your lose. Please know that I am praying for you and your family. If there is anything you need, Please let me know.
Love always,
Carolyn
Rodney Graham
left a message on December 7, 2023:
My deepest condolences to Sandy and the rest of Ray’s family. I haven’t seen him in many years but remember him well from Schult mobile homes, softball and New Year’s Eve parties. He had quite the sense of humor and was always fun to be around.
Lanea Barczykowski
left a message on December 6, 2023:
My condolences to the family. Ray was one of my vendors at Elkton Food Lion. His wonderful smile and funny wit will be greatly missed.
John Lloyd
left a message on December 6, 2023:
Sandy,
My sincere condolences to you and your family.
MIchael Hoyle
left a message on December 6, 2023:
Sandy, my condolences to you and your family,
Laura Klein
left a message on December 4, 2023:
I am so very sorry for your loss Sandy. I never met your husband, but after reading everyone's memories of him, I wished I would have. Please remember the good times, they last forever.
Nick Albia Jr
left a message on December 3, 2023:
I was shocked to hear of Rays passing. What a good guy he was and quite a character. I met him while I worked at the Elkton Acme. Him being a diehard Steelers fan and me, a diehard Cowboys fan, we always had some remark to make about each others team. Even after I retired from the Acme, I remembered his early morning shift and would text him just after midnight and he always wondered what the heck I was doing up at that time… He couldn’t get over that I would give him the Sunday Night Football news if it concerned his Steelers… Ray will be missed dearly by all who knew him and loved him. Gone much too soon. RIP my friend 🙏🏻
Belinda
left a message on December 3, 2023:
I am so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. I worked at Walmart for many years and every time he would see me he would call me sis and I'd call him bro. This is really upsetting. I almost feel like he was my bro. He had such a great since of humor. He will definitely be missed. Sending my deepest condolences and praying for the whole family at this sad time.
Carmen Rose Nester
left a message on December 2, 2023:
Way too soon. Fly with the angels.
Julie (Hamilton) Dulski
left a message on December 2, 2023:
Sending my Deepest Condolences & Prayers to the Family 🙏🙏.I've known Ray since Grade school he was a Very Sweet & Kind Person, He will be Deeply Missed .🙏♥️🙏
Jermaine D Trotter
left a message on December 2, 2023:
My friend you taught me so much and was always there to help me for the 17 years I worked next to I'm so glad I had the chance to meet you. Rest in peace my friend you will be missed Jermaine 'Doc" Trotter.
Bey & Jim Foster
left a message on December 2, 2023:
Our deepest sympathies to Sandy, Stephanie and Lindsay. Ray was a great neighbor…his meticulous lawn care will never be matched. Praying for peace and healing for you during this very difficult time.
Ed & Faith Ferguson
left a message on December 2, 2023:
We cannot imagine the pain at the loss of Raymond Jr. Please know that we send our sincere condolences and love to you all.
Ed and Faith Ferguson
Springfield, Missouri
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jim & Jeanie McMinn
left a message on December 2, 2023:
Our heart aches for your loss. So glad he was at our Ferguson reunion last June, I remember him so warm and friendly. Sympathy and love to the extended family.
Mark
left a message on December 1, 2023:
Rip my friend you were a amazing guy friend brother from other mother you will truly be missed..
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Sandy Ferguson
left a message on March 8, 2024:
I sat with you today!
I sat with you today, I sat right in your chair,
I know I could not see you, but I knew that you were there.
I couldn't hear your voice at all, but I heard every word that was spoken, I sat with you today, you calm, but yet so heart broken....
I know you follow me around, I have known it from the start, But sometimes I am afraid to look,
So heavy is my heart.....
I often feel you touch my face, Or think I feel you near, But when I try to see you,
Its like you just simply disappear..
I love you more and more each day, And beg for you to know, I find it harder every day, Just to let you go...
I sat with you today you know, I'm sure that was your scent, I cannot understand it though, How you just suddenly went...
I'll sit with you tomorrow, If that's okay with you,
Sometimes it feels the only thing
I still know to do…I love you!
Donald Harmon
left a message on January 7, 2024:
Worked with Ray several years, and in that time found him to be a delight to be around. A fun living guy and a hard worker. He will be missed.
Tammy Ferguson
left a message on December 28, 2023:
BRUB – My Best Friend thank you for being there for me with your love and guidance I needed. You have given me the best things in life, your time, your care and especially your love. I am truly grateful and blessed to of had you in my life. I am proud to call you my cousin. Now you are my Angel so spread your wings and fly. I love and miss you Brub with all my heart. Rest In Peace . I love you and miss you very much. Tammy
Melodie Grubb-Fritsch
left a message on December 15, 2023:
I’m so sorry for your loss. I remember Ray from school he was such a nice and friendly guy. Can’t believe he’s gone; much too soon! My thoughts and prayers to all of the family.
Steph
left a message on December 10, 2023:
I miss you so much Dad. You are everything to our family. You protected us, loved us, did everything for us and we are so grateful to have someone so amazing as the head of our family. There is an empty hole for the rest of our lives. Your ability to bring laughter, help in times of need, or just hang out are truly the greatest things I’ll miss. You did so many small, simple things that we all miss every hour of each day. Time is continuing and we’re just so lost without your presence. Send us signs because we’re going to need them. Love you Dad. 💗
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Geneva
left a message on December 9, 2023:
I’m so sorry for the loss of Ray ! He was a wonderful person i got to know him as the bread man ! I saw him so much when my mom worked at Walmart they would crack jokes for days. I just saw him a couple days before thanksgiving and he still had his wonderful funny spirit was so happy to talk about his grandbabies. He will be truly missed ! God gain a wonderful spirit.
My condolences to the family
Michelle from Walmart in Elkton ,Md
left a message on December 9, 2023:
He will be missed. I only new Ray as the Bagel man but he always put a smile on my face. He had a great sense is humor.
Carolyn Lesniowski
left a message on December 7, 2023:
Sandy,
I am so sorry for your lose. Please know that I am praying for you and your family. If there is anything you need, Please let me know.
Love always,
Carolyn
Rodney Graham
left a message on December 7, 2023:
My deepest condolences to Sandy and the rest of Ray’s family. I haven’t seen him in many years but remember him well from Schult mobile homes, softball and New Year’s Eve parties. He had quite the sense of humor and was always fun to be around.
Lanea Barczykowski
left a message on December 6, 2023:
My condolences to the family. Ray was one of my vendors at Elkton Food Lion. His wonderful smile and funny wit will be greatly missed.
John Lloyd
left a message on December 6, 2023:
Sandy,
My sincere condolences to you and your family.
MIchael Hoyle
left a message on December 6, 2023:
Sandy, my condolences to you and your family,
Laura Klein
left a message on December 4, 2023:
I am so very sorry for your loss Sandy. I never met your husband, but after reading everyone's memories of him, I wished I would have. Please remember the good times, they last forever.
Nick Albia Jr
left a message on December 3, 2023:
I was shocked to hear of Rays passing. What a good guy he was and quite a character. I met him while I worked at the Elkton Acme. Him being a diehard Steelers fan and me, a diehard Cowboys fan, we always had some remark to make about each others team. Even after I retired from the Acme, I remembered his early morning shift and would text him just after midnight and he always wondered what the heck I was doing up at that time… He couldn’t get over that I would give him the Sunday Night Football news if it concerned his Steelers… Ray will be missed dearly by all who knew him and loved him. Gone much too soon. RIP my friend 🙏🏻
Belinda
left a message on December 3, 2023:
I am so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. I worked at Walmart for many years and every time he would see me he would call me sis and I'd call him bro. This is really upsetting. I almost feel like he was my bro. He had such a great since of humor. He will definitely be missed. Sending my deepest condolences and praying for the whole family at this sad time.
Carmen Rose Nester
left a message on December 2, 2023:
Way too soon. Fly with the angels.
Julie (Hamilton) Dulski
left a message on December 2, 2023:
Sending my Deepest Condolences & Prayers to the Family 🙏🙏.I've known Ray since Grade school he was a Very Sweet & Kind Person, He will be Deeply Missed .🙏♥️🙏
Jermaine D Trotter
left a message on December 2, 2023:
My friend you taught me so much and was always there to help me for the 17 years I worked next to I'm so glad I had the chance to meet you. Rest in peace my friend you will be missed Jermaine 'Doc" Trotter.
Bey & Jim Foster
left a message on December 2, 2023:
Our deepest sympathies to Sandy, Stephanie and Lindsay. Ray was a great neighbor…his meticulous lawn care will never be matched. Praying for peace and healing for you during this very difficult time.
Ed & Faith Ferguson
left a message on December 2, 2023:
We cannot imagine the pain at the loss of Raymond Jr. Please know that we send our sincere condolences and love to you all.
Ed and Faith Ferguson
Springfield, Missouri
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jim & Jeanie McMinn
left a message on December 2, 2023:
Our heart aches for your loss. So glad he was at our Ferguson reunion last June, I remember him so warm and friendly. Sympathy and love to the extended family.
Mark
left a message on December 1, 2023:
Rip my friend you were a amazing guy friend brother from other mother you will truly be missed..
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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