Matthew Eric Istvan, 33, of Elkton, MD, passed away suddenly Sunday, January 12, 2014 at his home. Born April 4, 1980 in Albuquerque, NM, Matt was the son of George and Barbara (Netzel) Istvan. Matt loved animals, music, and was an avid drummer. He also enjoyed fishing and camping, but what he cherished most wasContinue Reading
Matthew Eric Istvan, 33, of Elkton, MD, passed away suddenly Sunday, January 12, 2014 at his home.
Born April 4, 1980 in Albuquerque, NM, Matt was the son of George and Barbara (Netzel) Istvan. Matt loved animals, music, and was an avid drummer. He also enjoyed fishing and camping, but what he cherished most was his time spent with his beloved children, Eden and Ezra, especially at the beach.
Including his parents, Matt is survived by his daughter, Eden Rose Istvan; son, Ezra Eric Istvan of Rising Sun, MD; brothers, Chad Istvan and his wife, Jessica of Elkton, MD and Geoff Istvan of Elkton, MD; sister, Barbara Istvan of Augusta, WV.
A service honoring Matt’s life will be held at 8pm Friday, January 17, 2014 at R.T. Foard Funeral Home, 259 E. Main St., Elkton, MD 21921 where family and friends may visit beginning at 6:30pm. Burial will be private to the family. Memorial contributions may be made payable to the Eden and Ezra Istvan Trust Fund and sent in care to the funeral home.
A Tribute To Matt
No words I write could ever say
How sad and empty I feel today
The Angels came for you
Much sooner than I planned
I’ll brave the bitter grief that comes
And I’ll try my best to understand
Matt why did you have to go away
Why wasn’t it right for you to stay
In my heart Matt will always be
I love him dearly and I know he’ll watch over me
What I’m suffering seems so unfair
But one thing is for certain
My love for him will always be there
Matt my son you always will be
The most important part of my hearts memory
I’ll cherish the moments I held you in my arms
And I’m sure that if you had stayed longer
You would have graced me with your charms
A thousand words won’t bring you back
I know because I’ve tried
Neither will a thousand tears
I know because I’ve cried
Now you’re up in Heaven
With the Angels up above
They will take my place for now
And they’ll give you all their love
So go and rest in peace now
My little boy so dear
For all my love and memories
I will hold forever near
-Mom and Dad
Humberto
left a message on January 20, 2014:
Hello George, I just want to said i´m deeply sorry for your lost, there´s no words can ease the pain so i hope so you and your family soon find relief for this pain so great, god bless you and your family. Sincerely. Humberto Márquez. Alliances Service de México.
Norberto Fernandez
left a message on January 18, 2014:
Dear Josh and Family, " May the Love of God embrace you at this time" From Heart to Heart Norberto
Mark, Jackie & Jacob
left a message on January 18, 2014:
Words can not express the sadness in my heart. Our deepest sympathy to the Istvan Family during this most difficult time. We had a lot of good times and I will cherish them forever. May god bless your family now and always...
Mike Kline
left a message on January 17, 2014:
To Barb, George and the Istvan Family Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during these very sad times. Can only imagine the depth of your sadness. We'll be here to support you in the coming days, months and years. Mike and Martha
RONALD LEE TRUSLOW SR.
left a message on January 17, 2014:
MATT WAS A KIND PERSON WHO LOVED HIS CHILDREN WITH ALL HIS HEART...HE SHOWED THE SAME TO MY TWO CHILDREN..HE ALWAYS FOUND A WAY TO MAKE SOMEONE SMILE WHEN THE CHIPS WERE DOWN...MATT WAS MORE THAN A FRIEND TO ME ...HE WAS LIKE FAMILY.. BEING THERE AND CARING WHEN EVER LIFE WAS UP OR DOWN...HE HELPED MY SON RONALD TO PLAY ON HIS DRUMS. MATT YOU WILL BE FOREVER IN MY HEART..
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Linda Shiflett Truslow
left a message on January 17, 2014:
I want to send my condolences to the Istvan family, Matt was my best friend he will be dearly missed. He always talked about his kids and would bring them over to visit. He loved playing drums with my son, and would do anything he could for you if you needed a helping hand. May he rest and peace until we meet again.
Irene Kerrigan
left a message on January 17, 2014:
My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this most difficult time.
Joan and Dennis Dec ker
left a message on January 17, 2014:
George and Barb Please accept our most heartfelt sympathy for your loss. Our hearts go out to both of you and your family. No words can comfort you all at this time you and your family are in our prayers. Joan and Dennis
Peggy Marino
left a message on January 17, 2014:
Barb and George ... there are no words except I love you.. Mathew (I loved calling him Mathew) will always be in my heart and my prayers.. I wish I could be there with you all.. know I am in spirit.. my love to both of you as well as Chad and Jessica, Jeff and Barbara Jr. ... remembering the wonderful times we all shared. Mathew was a very special young man and will be dearly missed. Peggy... xxoo
Shirley Beale
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Barb and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Words can't even express. “May the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times and in every way. The Lord be with all of you.” 2 Thessalonians 3:16
Michelle Sheftz Brierley
left a message on January 16, 2014:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless
Debbie Parsons
left a message on January 16, 2014:
So many memories of Matt I can't believe he's gone! Breaks my heart he was always at my house him and Glenn getting into everything they possibly could and never getting in trouble for it! All the memories going through my head these past couple days have puta smile on my face! He will be so missed and I'm keeping all of u in my prayers!
Mitch Willis
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Going to miss you Matt. you were a good dude, I remember all the jam sessions you, Chad, Geoff, Joey, Me and Audie would have down in your parents basement. those were some good times. It was good seeing you awhile back and though we all lost touch with each other, I always think about the old school days. Keep rockin on them drums my friend....and the next time I jam on mine, I'll be thinking about you. Say hello to my sister for me up there will ya?? thanks bud
Mike Maddock
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Matt you will forever be remembered in our hearts. We love you and will miss you.
Theresa Mussaw
left a message on January 16, 2014:
So many memories from hanging out at the Istvan home back in high school, and even though Matt was a bit younger than the rest of us, he still was so cool to hang out with. Tons of music and lots of laughs were had with Matt and the rest of his family. My thoughts and prayers go out to Mr. and Mrs. Istvan, Chad, Geoff, Barbara, Matt's children, and the rest of the family.
Valerie Hamilton
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Barb, thinking of you at this difficult time. My heart breaks for you and your family. God bless and prayers are with you.
Janelle Mather Sprowls
left a message on January 16, 2014:
My thoughts and prayers are with you, know that God has his arms around you all as you go through these trying times, love you George and Barb
John H
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Rest in piece brother. Thank you for a lot of wonderful memories. You'll will be missed by many Love you. John H and friends of Jimmy K
Marie Cantrell
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Thougths and prayers I send to you at this time, sincerely, Marie
Sierra Calvert
left a message on January 16, 2014:
George, Barbara, Chad, Geoff and Barb, Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Last time I saw Matt, he looked great, was all dressed up and happy. I am glad to have such a nice memory of him. I hope that you are able to find comfort and peace in the memories you have of Matt. I will continue to lift you up and pray that time allows you to heal from this tragic loss. Our family supports you fully and we are willing to help in any way. Much love, Sierra Webster Calvert
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jennifer Tuerke
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Matt was amazing: his incredible sensitivity and values taught me how to love again with all my heart and to stand up for what I believe in, without fear of what others think. My life has been forever changed by having known him and by witnessing the love between him and his family. I'm so grateful to have walked a short part of his life's journey with him. My prayers are with all who love him and those who will miss him each day...
sue Davis
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Barb and George I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to both. May the memories last forever and the sorrow only as long as you need. Love to you and your family. To you both all my heart has to give.
Tina Bys
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Barb and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that I am praying for each of you. Love, Tina
John & Carol Morole
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Barb and George; John & I are sad to hear of Matt's passing. Our hearts go out to you and all of your family members. I am sure there are no words that can comfort you right now. You are in our prayers, as are Matt's children.
Ellen Farrell
left a message on January 16, 2014:
To the Istvan Family: My heart goes out to you. I am so incredibly sad to hear about Matt and for the pain you are feeling. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Beth Hamlin
left a message on January 16, 2014:
To all the Istvan family, Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy for your tragic loss. Words cannot really express the sadness this news brings to all who knew Matt. I will keep each of you in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.
Jason Brown
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Matt was the best friend I have ever had, a beautiful soul and kind heart. He showed me what it was like to have fun in life again and was my rock when I went through some hard times. I love you brother and will always miss you. Thank you for everything.
Kate Young
left a message on January 16, 2014:
I was deeply saddened to hear of Matt's passing. Although I never knew him, I just wanted you to know that my heart breaks for his family. The poem that you wrote here brought me to tears.
David and Treva Mather
left a message on January 15, 2014:
George and Barb, Our family has you in our thoughts and prayers. David and Treva Mather
robert proto
left a message on January 15, 2014:
rest in peace my old friend
Donny Marino
left a message on January 15, 2014:
Dear Barbara and George, I am so very sorry to hear of the terrible loss of Matthew. Please accept my condolences, and May Matthew Rest In Peace. Thinking of you in this trying time, Donny Marino
Kristen Thomas
left a message on January 15, 2014:
Dear Istvan Family, I am thinking of you all, and praying for peace and comfort. I know that Matt's free spirit with live on through Eden Rose, and that laid-back smile will forever be seen on Ezra's sweet face. Love, Kristen Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. (Matthew 5:4)
melissa kabina
left a message on January 15, 2014:
My prayers to the istavan family..especially his children..even though i didnt see matt.in awhile he always crossed my mind..he was a great friend..matt im sure you will see jeff so you wont be alone..give him a hug from me and tristan and dont stir up too much trouble...ill see u on the other side...melissa xoxoxo
Bonnie Wright
left a message on January 15, 2014:
To Matt's family I'm truly sorry for your loss.I am so sad to find out this news. Barb I could not imagine what you are going thru or any of his family. Matt was such a sweet, funny guy and so young. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.
PATRICIA BAILEY
left a message on January 15, 2014:
To the entire Istvan family. I am truly sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain that you all must be feeling but know he is an angel now looking down upon you.
Rex and Nancy
left a message on January 15, 2014:
Barb and George: So very, very sorry to hear of the loss of your son, Matt. We can not imagine how hard this must be, but want to let you know that our thoughts and prayers are going your way. Let all those special memories carry you thru this very difficult time. If we can do anything for you at any time please let us know, you are both such special friends to us. Take care and looking forward to see you when the weather starts to get warmer. Love, Rex and Nans
Janie Palmer
left a message on January 15, 2014:
To the Istvan Family, My thoughts are deepest prayers are for your entire family. I know the trials and tribulations that we have all gone through for i have my own. I only hope that our children be safe. God bless you.!
Jennifer Brinkley
left a message on January 15, 2014:
My condolences to the entire Istvan family. Matt, you will be missed.
Megan I
left a message on January 15, 2014:
I was so saddened to hear of his passing words cannot even express. I am very heart broken. I am also so glad that I saw him thanksgiving day and will cherish our last meal together the rest of our life. I also remember great vacations at one another's house in the summers of our child hood. Bike riding, going to shelbys when he would visit our home and the little store down the street when we visited your home. But most of all I will always remember the wrestling videos we made and especially the baby got back video. May you rest in peace sweet angel until we meet again. I love you xoxox
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Humberto
left a message on January 20, 2014:
Hello George, I just want to said i´m deeply sorry for your lost, there´s no words can ease the pain so i hope so you and your family soon find relief for this pain so great, god bless you and your family. Sincerely. Humberto Márquez. Alliances Service de México.
Norberto Fernandez
left a message on January 18, 2014:
Dear Josh and Family, " May the Love of God embrace you at this time" From Heart to Heart Norberto
Mark, Jackie & Jacob
left a message on January 18, 2014:
Words can not express the sadness in my heart. Our deepest sympathy to the Istvan Family during this most difficult time. We had a lot of good times and I will cherish them forever. May god bless your family now and always...
Mike Kline
left a message on January 17, 2014:
To Barb, George and the Istvan Family Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during these very sad times. Can only imagine the depth of your sadness. We'll be here to support you in the coming days, months and years. Mike and Martha
RONALD LEE TRUSLOW SR.
left a message on January 17, 2014:
MATT WAS A KIND PERSON WHO LOVED HIS CHILDREN WITH ALL HIS HEART...HE SHOWED THE SAME TO MY TWO CHILDREN..HE ALWAYS FOUND A WAY TO MAKE SOMEONE SMILE WHEN THE CHIPS WERE DOWN...MATT WAS MORE THAN A FRIEND TO ME ...HE WAS LIKE FAMILY.. BEING THERE AND CARING WHEN EVER LIFE WAS UP OR DOWN...HE HELPED MY SON RONALD TO PLAY ON HIS DRUMS. MATT YOU WILL BE FOREVER IN MY HEART..
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Linda Shiflett Truslow
left a message on January 17, 2014:
I want to send my condolences to the Istvan family, Matt was my best friend he will be dearly missed. He always talked about his kids and would bring them over to visit. He loved playing drums with my son, and would do anything he could for you if you needed a helping hand. May he rest and peace until we meet again.
Irene Kerrigan
left a message on January 17, 2014:
My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this most difficult time.
Joan and Dennis Dec ker
left a message on January 17, 2014:
George and Barb Please accept our most heartfelt sympathy for your loss. Our hearts go out to both of you and your family. No words can comfort you all at this time you and your family are in our prayers. Joan and Dennis
Peggy Marino
left a message on January 17, 2014:
Barb and George ... there are no words except I love you.. Mathew (I loved calling him Mathew) will always be in my heart and my prayers.. I wish I could be there with you all.. know I am in spirit.. my love to both of you as well as Chad and Jessica, Jeff and Barbara Jr. ... remembering the wonderful times we all shared. Mathew was a very special young man and will be dearly missed. Peggy... xxoo
Shirley Beale
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Barb and family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Words can't even express. “May the Lord of peace himself give you peace at all times and in every way. The Lord be with all of you.” 2 Thessalonians 3:16
Michelle Sheftz Brierley
left a message on January 16, 2014:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless
Debbie Parsons
left a message on January 16, 2014:
So many memories of Matt I can't believe he's gone! Breaks my heart he was always at my house him and Glenn getting into everything they possibly could and never getting in trouble for it! All the memories going through my head these past couple days have puta smile on my face! He will be so missed and I'm keeping all of u in my prayers!
Mitch Willis
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Going to miss you Matt. you were a good dude, I remember all the jam sessions you, Chad, Geoff, Joey, Me and Audie would have down in your parents basement. those were some good times. It was good seeing you awhile back and though we all lost touch with each other, I always think about the old school days. Keep rockin on them drums my friend....and the next time I jam on mine, I'll be thinking about you. Say hello to my sister for me up there will ya?? thanks bud
Mike Maddock
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Matt you will forever be remembered in our hearts. We love you and will miss you.
Theresa Mussaw
left a message on January 16, 2014:
So many memories from hanging out at the Istvan home back in high school, and even though Matt was a bit younger than the rest of us, he still was so cool to hang out with. Tons of music and lots of laughs were had with Matt and the rest of his family. My thoughts and prayers go out to Mr. and Mrs. Istvan, Chad, Geoff, Barbara, Matt's children, and the rest of the family.
Valerie Hamilton
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Barb, thinking of you at this difficult time. My heart breaks for you and your family. God bless and prayers are with you.
Janelle Mather Sprowls
left a message on January 16, 2014:
My thoughts and prayers are with you, know that God has his arms around you all as you go through these trying times, love you George and Barb
John H
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Rest in piece brother. Thank you for a lot of wonderful memories. You'll will be missed by many Love you. John H and friends of Jimmy K
Marie Cantrell
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Thougths and prayers I send to you at this time, sincerely, Marie
Sierra Calvert
left a message on January 16, 2014:
George, Barbara, Chad, Geoff and Barb, Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Last time I saw Matt, he looked great, was all dressed up and happy. I am glad to have such a nice memory of him. I hope that you are able to find comfort and peace in the memories you have of Matt. I will continue to lift you up and pray that time allows you to heal from this tragic loss. Our family supports you fully and we are willing to help in any way. Much love, Sierra Webster Calvert
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jennifer Tuerke
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Matt was amazing: his incredible sensitivity and values taught me how to love again with all my heart and to stand up for what I believe in, without fear of what others think. My life has been forever changed by having known him and by witnessing the love between him and his family. I'm so grateful to have walked a short part of his life's journey with him. My prayers are with all who love him and those who will miss him each day...
sue Davis
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Barb and George I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to both. May the memories last forever and the sorrow only as long as you need. Love to you and your family. To you both all my heart has to give.
Tina Bys
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Barb and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that I am praying for each of you. Love, Tina
John & Carol Morole
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Barb and George; John & I are sad to hear of Matt's passing. Our hearts go out to you and all of your family members. I am sure there are no words that can comfort you right now. You are in our prayers, as are Matt's children.
Ellen Farrell
left a message on January 16, 2014:
To the Istvan Family: My heart goes out to you. I am so incredibly sad to hear about Matt and for the pain you are feeling. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Beth Hamlin
left a message on January 16, 2014:
To all the Istvan family, Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy for your tragic loss. Words cannot really express the sadness this news brings to all who knew Matt. I will keep each of you in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.
Jason Brown
left a message on January 16, 2014:
Matt was the best friend I have ever had, a beautiful soul and kind heart. He showed me what it was like to have fun in life again and was my rock when I went through some hard times. I love you brother and will always miss you. Thank you for everything.
Kate Young
left a message on January 16, 2014:
I was deeply saddened to hear of Matt's passing. Although I never knew him, I just wanted you to know that my heart breaks for his family. The poem that you wrote here brought me to tears.
David and Treva Mather
left a message on January 15, 2014:
George and Barb, Our family has you in our thoughts and prayers. David and Treva Mather
robert proto
left a message on January 15, 2014:
rest in peace my old friend
Donny Marino
left a message on January 15, 2014:
Dear Barbara and George, I am so very sorry to hear of the terrible loss of Matthew. Please accept my condolences, and May Matthew Rest In Peace. Thinking of you in this trying time, Donny Marino
Kristen Thomas
left a message on January 15, 2014:
Dear Istvan Family, I am thinking of you all, and praying for peace and comfort. I know that Matt's free spirit with live on through Eden Rose, and that laid-back smile will forever be seen on Ezra's sweet face. Love, Kristen Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. (Matthew 5:4)
melissa kabina
left a message on January 15, 2014:
My prayers to the istavan family..especially his children..even though i didnt see matt.in awhile he always crossed my mind..he was a great friend..matt im sure you will see jeff so you wont be alone..give him a hug from me and tristan and dont stir up too much trouble...ill see u on the other side...melissa xoxoxo
Bonnie Wright
left a message on January 15, 2014:
To Matt's family I'm truly sorry for your loss.I am so sad to find out this news. Barb I could not imagine what you are going thru or any of his family. Matt was such a sweet, funny guy and so young. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.
PATRICIA BAILEY
left a message on January 15, 2014:
To the entire Istvan family. I am truly sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain that you all must be feeling but know he is an angel now looking down upon you.
Rex and Nancy
left a message on January 15, 2014:
Barb and George: So very, very sorry to hear of the loss of your son, Matt. We can not imagine how hard this must be, but want to let you know that our thoughts and prayers are going your way. Let all those special memories carry you thru this very difficult time. If we can do anything for you at any time please let us know, you are both such special friends to us. Take care and looking forward to see you when the weather starts to get warmer. Love, Rex and Nans
Janie Palmer
left a message on January 15, 2014:
To the Istvan Family, My thoughts are deepest prayers are for your entire family. I know the trials and tribulations that we have all gone through for i have my own. I only hope that our children be safe. God bless you.!
Jennifer Brinkley
left a message on January 15, 2014:
My condolences to the entire Istvan family. Matt, you will be missed.
Megan I
left a message on January 15, 2014:
I was so saddened to hear of his passing words cannot even express. I am very heart broken. I am also so glad that I saw him thanksgiving day and will cherish our last meal together the rest of our life. I also remember great vacations at one another's house in the summers of our child hood. Bike riding, going to shelbys when he would visit our home and the little store down the street when we visited your home. But most of all I will always remember the wrestling videos we made and especially the baby got back video. May you rest in peace sweet angel until we meet again. I love you xoxox
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.