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Jeannette Nesbitt Hillyer

July 25, 1922 - May 1, 2013

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Hopewell United Methodist Church
1811 Hopewell Road
Port Deposit, MD 21904
Tuesday 5/7, 10:00 am - 11:00 am

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Hopewell Cemetery
1811 Hopewell Rd.
Port Deposit, MD 21904
Tuesday 5/7
Hopewell United Methodist Church
1811 Hopewell Road
Port Deposit, MD 21904
Tuesday 5/7, 11:00 am

Jeannette Nesbitt Hillyer, age 90, passed away on May 1, 2013 in Port Deposit, MD. Jeannette was born in Port Deposit, MD on July 25, 1922 to the late Harry Nesbitt and Ethel (Jones) Nesbitt.

A supporter and member of the Democratic Party, Jeannette was very active in community affairs. She was a big part of the Bainbridge Development Corporation, where she championed causes like a Naval History museum and a Veteran’s Cemetery for this area of the state. An animal lover, she enjoyed observing nature’s many birds and animals and was a supporter of many environmental causes such as the Susquehanna Heritage Greenway. A lifelong resident of Cecil County, Jeannette had a tremendous knowledge of the rich history of the county. She was especially moved by the 1947 Memorial Day plane crash of Eastern Flight 605 in Port Deposit, MD. She worked with the Stewart Company to have a Memorial constructed in honor of the 53 who lost their lives that day. She was also active in the Ladies Auxiliary of the Fleet Reserve Association at Bainbridge.

She is survived by her son Steven G. Hillyer and wife Susan E. of Havre de Grace, MD, daughters JoAnn Hayes of Havre de Grace, MD and Kathleen Shelton of San Antonio, TX; 6 grandchildren and 6 great grandchildren.

She was predeceased by her husband Frank Hillyer in 2011 and one grandchild.

Services will be held at 11AM on Tuesday, May 7, 2013 at Hopewell United Methodist Church, 1811 Hopewell Rd., Port Deposit, MD 21904. Friends and family may call 1 hour prior beginning at 10AM. Burial will follow at Hopewell Cemetery. Memorial contributions can be made to Chesapeake Bay Foundation or the Environmental Program at the Havre de Grace H.S., payable to the high school c/o R.T. Foard F.H., 111 S. Queen St., Rising Sun, MD 21911.

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Hopewell United Methodist Church
1811 Hopewell Road
Port Deposit, MD 21904
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Tuesday 5/7, 10:00 am - 11:00 am
Service
Hopewell Cemetery
1811 Hopewell Rd.
Port Deposit, MD 21904
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Tuesday 5/7
Hopewell United Methodist Church
1811 Hopewell Road
Port Deposit, MD 21904
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Tuesday 5/7, 11:00 am

Jeannette Nesbitt Hillyer, age 90, passed away on May 1, 2013 in Port Deposit, MD. Jeannette was born in Port Deposit, MD on July 25, 1922 to the late Harry Nesbitt and Ethel (Jones) Nesbitt. A supporter and member of the Democratic Party, Jeannette was very active in community affairs. She was a big partContinue Reading

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Kathy Shelton left a message on July 12, 2013:
It is so strange to close the final chapter of our lives together. It seems like yesterday that we were sitting at the table eating a plate of ham, cabbage and potatoes and reminising about how Mom loved to make that dish for us. Now it was Mothers turn to do the honors. We would put onions and vinegar on it to perk up our taste buds and laugh at how funny our mouths would pucker up from the vinegar. You can't bring them back but you can cherish the memories forever. We will miss the good times Mother and hope that you are in a better place. Life will go on and people will remember the good things you did in your lifetime. Always, Kathy
Kathy Shelton left a message on July 6, 2013:
Dear Mother, How quickly time passes us by, sometimes without warning we are caught off guard and then we are lost forever in time. I loved you Mother with all my heart and I hope you knew that. When I called you weekly I made sure I told you I loved you so that you would never have to wonder. I think that you were a very lucky Mother to have your three loving children for so many years. I know that I wasn't there on a daily basis in the last six years but God guided me here to Texas to be with my children and grandchildren. They needed me. Sometimes in life we have to do things for others because they are in need. I never regret for a single minute my decision to come to Texas. After all, children are the biggest reward we get in life. Peaceful Rest My Dear Mother. Kathy
Michele Shaffer left a message on May 7, 2013:
To teach is to touch a life forever. Mama Hillyer taught her son Steve to love and respect the Earth. Her legacy is not simply that she taught Steve to love the Earth. Her legacy spreads and flowers with each student that her son teaches and inspires. Steve, you and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Mama Shaffer
john abrahams left a message on May 4, 2013:
Well, of course she has gained heaven by all her dedicated work on earth. Indomitable, unsinkable, tough, fearless, could shot from the hip, Port Deposit's Best, my neighbor, my friend, absolutely one of a kind. I am proud to say the lady and I were on the same page most of the time. Miss you. Grieve my loss but Heaven's gain. Bless your beloved family who were kind to personally call me. I'll be there.
Susan E Hillyer left a message on May 4, 2013:
A very special lady, friend and Mother in law. Together we shared laughter and some tears.(well, mainly I cried ) Mrs . Hillyer was a strong woman, a funny woman, and a generous woman. I made a promise to her that I would care for one of her most prized possessions and I aim to keep that promise to her. She was someone whom I could say was a friend of mine. I enjoyed her company. She never asked much of me, just to visit, keep her company. Maybe a little shopping here and there. She gave me more than I could ever give her. I wish I had done more, maybe an extra visit, another shopping trip, make her another batch of her favorite cookies, something, just something and have her back . I don't think I said goodbye properly. I wanted to sit next to her bed, tell her I loved her, tell her what she meant to me, hold her hand longer, just something. I remember the day before she went into the hospital. She was standing and leaning slightly against the kitchen counter, looking a little down because I was leaving. I wish I knew then what I know now. I wish I knew it would have been the last time I saw her like that in her home, you know, standing there, age of 90. taking care of herself, and her little dogs, doing dishes, running a house hold. I wish i knew, I would have gone back into the house and stayed longer, told her things. Oh Mother Hillyer, life just doesn't seem to be long enough does it ? I remember you said you loved me while you were in the hospital. What happened ? you walked into the hospital. ... My heart broke when Steve and I saw you the day we said you were going home. Apromise I always said to you, a wish you always wanted. To die at home. I said between all of us, we would never let you go to a Nursing Home, we would care for you at home. I'm glad we at least kept that part true, I hope it meant something to you. Are you there somewhere ? Can you see us ? We all love you and we will miss you. Susan
RT Foard left a message:
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