Thanks be to God for Gary and his ministry of music at Evangelical Presbyterian Church. We remember him with love and look forward to hearing his voice again praising our Lord in a heavenly choir. He will be missed by many.
Gary was a wonderful person, and it saddens me that he was taken from us way too soon. My fondest memories of Gary are whenever he sang as I am a musician myself. He had a singing voice like no other and when he was singing you could see that was his passion. Whether it was something over the radio or Dr. Harmon putting him on the spot to sing something, hearing Gary sing was an experience.
I close with a lyric from a song that got me through a lot of difficulties in my life (Disturbed's Hold on to Memories).
"Take the ones you love
And hold them close because there is little time
And don't let it break your heart
I know it feels hopeless sometimes
But they're never really gone
As long as there's a memory in your mind"
While Gary is no longer with us, I will always remember him. My thoughts and prayers are with his entire family.
I love you so much my other brother, but I know you are welcomed in Heaven by all the people who loved you and went before. May your celebration be eternal!
Gary will truly be missed. He touched everyone with his big heart and voice. He is singing in heaven now.
Gary was truly one of a kind. I will miss his smile and lively conversations. He was such a delight to work with. He inspired everyone to be better. Heaven's chorus just got a whole lot better - sing with the angels my friend. I will miss you! Thoughts and prayers to your family.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Gary performed with the Bel Canto Singers in Nassau, The Bahamas. Not only was he immensely talented, he was a kind and gracious person.
We mourn with his loved ones and send our deepest condolences.
With love and light,
Eldridge McPhee
Founder & Director
The Bel Canto Singers Bahamas
Gary sang at our daughter’s wedding. He sang The Lords Prayer and most of us said that his voice was one that sounded like what the angels must sound like. Unforgettable. He was such a kind person , loved Jesus. A good friend to our daughter Candace and a blessing to have known. Rest in Jesus arms Gary
The pleasure of knowing Gary was a peaceful blessing. Rest well in eternal peace my brother. You are already missed.
I had the privilege of serving with Gary in ministry for years. Together we taught God’s Word, discipled men through support groups, and shared many iron-sharpening-iron moments as we wrestled with the brokenness of this world. One thing that always stood out about Gary was his heart of prayer. His loving kindness brought peace to every room, and his voice carried a heavenly melody.
In our last prayer together, he said:
“Lord Jesus, I thank you for bringing my brother to mind this morning. I pray for his heart and ministry today. I ask that you would sing over him and that you would bring him joy as he walks with brothers and sisters in their brokenness. I pray for him and his wife and the needs in their marriage. Encourage them today and use them for your honor and for your glory. Thank you for my brother’s investment in my life and so many others. In Jesus’ redeeming and transforming name, Amen.” (I have this recorded if needed)
These enduring words have taught me more about Jesus' love and ministry than many books out there. He was a dear friend and co-laborer. One whom I will always captivate in my heart. Gary’s life always shone with a vibrant light that loved Christ sincerely. I am deeply saddened by his passing and extend my sincere condolences for your loss. Praise be to God that Gary’s faith is now made sight.
I went to high school with Gary and we were in many plays together and I have so many good memories with him. Of course he had that amazing voice we all loved to hear, but he was always so kind and funny and full of laughter too. What a loss to the world. My deepest sympathy to his family and all that loved him.
In memory of Gary Matthew Seydell, Deborah Reaves lit a candle
Gary was everything that WilmU is made of. He was always available to lend a helping hand to our students, and I am grateful for the time he served assisting our student athletes. He will be forever missed.
My father, Allen Smith, managed the Wilmington Trust on Main Street in Newark and Gary would sing in the lobby when he stopped by the bank. I was fortunate to be there several times to hear him. I think of Gary and how much Dad enjoyed his singing whenever I'm in that building. He warmed so many souls with his gift of music. My condolences to the family.
I worked with Gary since his first day on the job. Gary was one of the nicest people I have ever worked with - he was genuine. He will be greatly missed by so many people. Gary inspired many people to be more compassionate, kind, and cheery. Gary had a wonderful disposition, and the world was a better place with Gary in it. To his family: I am so sorry.
I was so shocked to learn of Gary's passing on. I had the pleasure of working with him for many years at Wilmington University. He was so very intelligent and committed to making a rewarding educational experience for all of WU's students. Gary and I often shared our deep desire to help students achieve their goals, as well as our faith which encouraged us.
I am certain Gary is now leading a choir of angels with his beautiful voice!
I knew Gary very well. He was my College advisor back in 2010 till 2013 at Wilmington College. He also participated in the Golo weight loss trials I ran for the Golo Brand. He was always smiling and his voice was amazing. I was privileged to hear him sing in St. Louis. I will miss him very much condolences to the family and his wife Leslie.
Gary was a beautiful person - who will be greatly missed at WilmU. Rest in peace.
Rest easy, Gary. It was nice working with you and you always greeted me with a smile.
Sending my deepest condolences to Gary's family. Gary will truly be missed at Wilmington University. Gary loved us as we were and we loved him too. He was an awesomely amazing and caring person. Whenever I had a question, he was always there to help me. When I was having a rough day, he would always send me something to make me laugh or smile. I am blessed to have had Gary in my life. You will never be forgotten my friend!
Our thoughts and prayers to Gary’s friends and families. We are going to miss him - his singing, laughter, and friendship just to name a few wonderful things about him.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Gary's influence will remain steadfast as we navigate our lives without him. I feel truly blessed to have known and worked beside Gary, and I will miss him greatly. RIP Dear Friend.
There are no words that would convey how much Gary will be missed. He was always there for anyone that needed help. My deep condolences to his family.
Sincerley,
B. Quattro
Mr. Gary was my Advisor at WilmU and helped me with everything! He was so nice and supportive. He truly believed in me and I will cherish our memories together. He was such a kind and wonderful person
Greg
With Deepest Sympathy in the loss of your brother.
Gary was a beloved individual and he was loved by many and may he rest in peace. Love, Beverly
Gary and I sang together with the Continental Singers in 1992. So kind, so compassionate, and a Faith that was so genuine. He was a fantastic leader and motivating personality. … and could he sing! Gary will be missed deeply!
Its been many years since our days at InterVarsity at UofD, but I still remember Garys genuine caring spirit and steady faith. Those memories remain some of my favorite. My condolences to all those who loved him.
My sincere condolence to the family. We first met Gary at Evangelical Presbyterian Church where we were mesmerized by his magnificent voice, his loving demeanor, and his radiant smile. We then ran into Gary again at Cornerstone Presbyterian Church. We were always so pleased to be in attendance whenever Gary sang. He is at peace and in our heavenly home now. I hope to hear his voice again someday.
I was deeply saddened to learn of the passing of my colleague and dear friend, Gary, a cherished acquaintance whose kindness, warmth, and quiet strength touched the lives of many daily.
Gary’s presence was a gift—steady, thoughtful, and always genuine. His loyalty as a friend and his gentle spirit will be remembered with love and gratitude. Though words can never fully express the sorrow of losing someone so dear, may we find comfort in the memories we shared and the legacy of kindness he leaves behind. Warm regards, Karen Marie
My deepest sympathy to Gary's family, I am blessed to have the privilege of knowing him. He was the kindest man and was always great to see him or chat with him. It is such a heartbreak to hear of his passing.
No words can even come close to expressing how it feels when you lose someone you love.
With Deepest Sympathy.
Gary, Rest in peace friend. You would always ask "Are you staying out of trouble?" I would reply "Are you?" I am going to miss your face, your smile, your voice and your beautiful spirit. Rest well.
Les and I are so sorry to hear about Gary's passing. He was such a beautiful man. He could make you laugh in every conversation. His voice and love for God will be greatly missed.
Dearest Gary. A friend and colleague of Joy, Faith and the voice of an angel. He was a gentleman and he will be missed.
Leb’ wohl du kühnes, herrliches Kind. Du meines Herzens heiligste Stolz. Leb’ wohl.
Gary was very sweet and kind person I will miss him ..and his kind words
Farewell kind friend, and thank you for everything.
Gary will be missed by his Cornerstone Presbyterian Church family. My heart is sad for his family and friends, but I know Gary is singing in heaven!
Gary’s uniquely beautiful light will be so missed in the world! We were grad school classmates and I have such fond memories of our time together. I’ll never forget his lovely voice laughingly calling me, “PRE-CIOUS!” His spirit still sings.
My deepest condolences to all of his beloved family and friends.❤️
Gary's Light will shine forever both here and in Heaven. Gary's life was a testament to God's presence through his music, his kindness and his beautiful expression of living.
Thank you Gary for all the lessons.
Love eternal
Debbie Johnson
Debbie Johnson
Gary was the bees' knees!
Gary was who I went to whenever I had a question, big or small, and I'm finding out more and more that he was who everyone went to with their questions. And he wasn't afraid to bust my chops: "Do you really not know how to edit a PDF, Kate?"
Gary had the biggest heart for everyone; we're all better for having known him.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
I am honored to call Gary a friend and to have worked beside him for the past 15 years. He brought joy and laughter every single day, even during challenging times. Especially during challenging time. To know Gary was to love him and be loved by him. He expressed his love so fiercely that we felt it with every interaction. I miss you, dear friend. I am grateful for you, too, G. Sending thoughts of peace and love to Jay, Greg, his extended family, and everyone that called him Uncle G.
Gary, you will be missed beyond words. Rest in peace dear sweet friend.
Gary was an amazing human and I was honored to call him my dear friend. My heart is broken but his laugh echos in my head constantly. In his own words, “I’m choosing joy”.
My sincere condolences for his family and all who loved him. We met in grad school and quickly became good friends, sharing our love of singing and our faith. In a world where so many are not what they seem, Gary lived his life of faith with grace. We remained close through the years and I miss him terribly but oh how wonderful it will be to hug him once again someday! Curtis and I will always love you.
Rest in peace, dear friend.
My thoughts and prayers are with family and friends during this difficult time!
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.